Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Don't worry 'bout me, I got a wild card up my sleeve.

"Don't worry 'bout me, I got a wild card up my sleeve."

I'm thinking about this as another tattoo. Not the quote, just the wild card... I would like the ace of hearts, though. :)

The actual line is, '"when the morning comes and it's time for me to leave; don't worry 'bout me, I've got a wild card up my sleeve." It's from the song "Easy From Now On," originally recorded by Emmylou Harris but rerecorded by my favorite artist, Miranda Lambert.

This phrase is not about one-night stands to me. It's a reminder that only I know what I am truly capable of and what my intentions are. I choose my own destiny (and I already have that phrase tattooed on me, so may as well take it further). No matter what the situation, I'm in control of my own actions. No matter who may hurt me or whatever setbacks I may encounter, I've got the final say. I've got the wild card that may surprise people if they try to trick me or something.

If I got it, it would be in black and white on the inside of my left bicep. That way I can hide it...both from potential employers and from anyone who may want to steal my ace in the hole. That was a metaphor.

Let me know what y'all think? Please? :)

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Proof I have always loved cats!

This is an article from the Cinci Enquirer. I am quoted at age 8, saying I am a "cat nut."

Winning.

Friday, December 23, 2011

Singer Demi Lovato took to Twitter to protest the latest Disney flub, a "joke" about eating disorders on the show "Shake it Up."

In the show, one character says to another:"I could just eat you up... well, if I ate."

Lovato, a former star on the Disney show "Sonny With a Chance," left a tour with the Jonas Brothers in the fall of 2011 to seek treatment for an eating disorder.

Obviously, this issue hits home for Lovato. But I hope it strikes a chord with other people, too. Eating disorders affect all of us, from stars to your everyday folks. It upsets me when I hear how far people go to look thin. Somewhere, I know society is to blame.


Demi, you are beautiful. Thanks for speaking up.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

My top 10 questions of 2011

- What is “the deep,” and how do you roll in it?
- …who is Kim Kardashian again?
- Is there anything exciting in my life now that the Harry Potter movies are over?
- So Natalie Portman DIDN’T do all that dancing?
- Why does Desmond look so weird?
- Yesterday was Thursday, today it is Friday…but what comes before Thursday?
- Is Esperanza Spalding a real person?
- Is Libya in Africa?
- Can I occupy my own house?
- ...when can I get married?!

This is one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

The trailer for The Hobbit looks SO GOOD

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

AP's top 10 albums of the year

The Associated Press listed Adele's 21 as its top album of 2011. No surprise, really, given how much influence the Brit has had on the music scene with her sophomore album. And it's a good album -- poignant, heartbreaking, and beautiful. Adele has a beautiful voice and is a talented songwriter.

But I was also proud to see the Pistol Annies on that list! Maybe it's because they were dubbed "the anti-Taylor Swift." Or maybe it's because I'm such a diehard Miranda Lambert fan! Either way, I share the author's views when she hopes the project becomes more regular.

Monday, December 19, 2011

Accused fraternity men put other Greeks on a bad pedestal

Conduct a Google search for a fraternity or sorority, and some of the most popular searches will probably not be for philanthropy projects or positive news about the Greek community. Apparently, people are scouring the Internet for "Kappa Kappa Gamma secrets" and the "Sigma Chi handshake." Ritual, the basis of the fraternity and sorority system, is a secret to anyone outside the organization, and people are obviously looking to uncover these secrets.

But conduct a Google search for the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity, and something a lot more menacing surfaces. The University of Vermont chapter of Sig Ep is being shut down indefinitely after several members allegedly circulated a survey asking who the members would like to rape. But not just any members were asked the question, "If I could rape someone, who would it be?" The survey was distributed among pledges: young men just joining the fraternity. Fresh blood, if you will, just beginning to understand the meaning of being a fraternity man.

Now, I'm pretty sure forcing the pledges to fill out a survey qualifies as hazing. And, unfortunately, hazing is an epidemic at schools everywhere. But so is sexual assault. I'm fairly positive that the founding fathers of Sigma Phi Epsilon would be so disappointed to see how their vision for a fraternity has fallen, at this chapter, since Sig Ep founded in 1901.

As a sorority woman myself, a proud member of Delta Zeta, I would rather people be looking for ritual secrets than read about something like this. After all, what things are hiding in our ritual? Values? Pledges? Ways to live? It's a secret, but does that mean it's inherently bad? When our collective founders wrote our rituals, I am sure they didn't expect hazing or sexual assault to be on the minds of their future brothers and sisters. Ritual is a gift of sorts. A set of guidelines for us to follow, handed down from exemplary men and women who wanted to change this world for the better. No one started a fraternity or sorority and wanted it to be known as "The Sexual Assault Fraternity" or "The Hazing Sorority." No. Our rituals are so much more than that.

But for many collegiate members, ritual is just as secret to them as it is to someone outside of the chapter. Ritual is something necessary to induct new members, or a threat to make them do something. That's it. For some brothers of Sig Ep at the University of Vermont, what was ritual? Clearly something they did not live out. When those men were in a dark room, full of candles, making some sort of pledge on initiation day, did they understand the weight of their promise? Or were they just going through the motions so they could be official members of a drinking club?

I don't know the words of the Sigma Phi Epsilon ritual, or any ritual besides my own. I can't say for certain what Sig Eps across the world pledge to when they are being initiated. But I can get a pretty good idea myself. Not from a Google search, or from breaking into my local Sig Ep chapter's house and reading the manual. Reading the words wouldn't give me a true understanding of their values. Ritual is meant to be lived, after all, and not just meant to be words on a page. To understand Sigma Phi Epsilon's values, or any fraternal organization's values, I simply have to see what the members strive to be. Founders of organizations, whether fraternal or no, set goals for their successors and ask them to lead by example.Where do you find our rituals? You find it every day, in your interactions with Greek men and women. When you see brothers picking up trash on the side of the road, or sisters staying up all night together to write letters for St. Jude's Children's Hospital. Chapters who recruit based on integrity, academic excellence, and content of character. Not those who recruit based on looks, alcohol tolerance, or clothing. I'd bet money -- and I don't have a lot of money -- that hazing, alcohol abuse, etc. are not in any Greek organization's ritual.

This example that some brothers at the University of Vermont set forth is not values-based. It is not their ritual. My sorority was called into question in 2007 at DePauw when women were asked to leave the chapter based on their looks. That kind of attitude, I guarantee you, is nowhere in our ritual.

Unfortunately, this latest episode in our collective Greek history is another one where we all are called into question, and when our values seem to be lost in an old book somewhere. What can we do? I mention to people that I am a sorority woman, and I hear the same things. "Why would you need to pay for your friends?" "You don't seem like a drinker." "...what do you actually do in a sorority? Like, how is it different from any other club?"

For every one of us who fails to uphold our values, there are hundreds trying to fight the stereotypes and make this world a better place. It's difficult. It frustrates us, pisses us off. But I, for one, am proud to be Greek. I have faith in our rituals, and that there are men and women who want to live them out. I know the Sig Ep chapter at my college is living their rituals out. What's more, I know there are good people in our national organizations, at the North American Interfraternity Conference, in the National Panhellenic Council, and in our chapters dedicated to rooting out what's threatening to undermine everything we hold dear.

If you're not Greek, I challenge you. Look me up. Look any one of us up. You can find our creeds and our open mottos online. If you dig enough, you may even be able to find our initiation services. God forbid that the world finds out we swear to scholarship and brotherhood and service when we are initiated!!

If you are Greek, I challenge you even more. Look up your own ritual, first. Do your brothers or sisters know it? Do you? Are you showing it in your daily actions? If no, why aren't you? Then, look to the others on your campus. Check out their national websites. Ask a few questions. We are all brothers and sisters in the community, in a way. Greeks and non-Greeks alike must be committed, together, to keeping the system accountable. If not, we'll disappear in a cloud of Animal House and hazing, of rape surveys and body image issues. It's all up to us.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Kim Jong Il dead

Kim Jong Il, the leader of North Korea, died yesterday. His son is set to succeed him. ...wow. I just read the news on Tumblr (of all places!) and it shocked me. I guess I haven't heard much about Kim recently, so news about North Korea has been off my radar.

I only hope we can live in a little less fear now. That everyone can!

Saturday, December 17, 2011

B. Spears engaged!


(Pic from New York Daily News)


I've already heard a lot of negativity about Britney Spears' new engagement to Jason Trawick. She just turned 30 and this will be her third marriage. The first marriage, in January 2004, was 55 hours of marriage to a childhood friend. I'm pretty sure she was drunk when she got hitched to Jason Alexander. The second, in September of 2007, was to dancer Kevin Federline. This one lasted less than three years, and Brit is now the proud mother of two boys, Federline's sons Jayden and Preston.

It's 2011, y'all. The END of 2011. It's been four years since Britney has been in a relationship of this weight -- or, rather, since she took such a weighty step. Trawick WAS her manager, but he quit recently to focus on their relationship. She knows him, he's got his life together. What's more, she's got HER life together. The tumultuous past, the rehab, the head shavings, the babies in the drivers' seat...it's all over. Her career is back on track. Her dance moves may not be as crisp as they once were, and her lip synching may happen more often, but she is still a talented performer, a good mom, and a sweet woman.

I know people rib me for being a Britney fan. But I like her. I like her personality, how she sticks to her guns when the going gets tough. I like how dedicated she is to her fans. I like how she lets her goofy side out and seems to have fun now, even after years in the spotlight. And I like her music. It's catchy, at times clever or poignant, and it sure is fun to dance to.   I believe that she'll continue on as a successful artist. And you know, I believe in her and Jason too. No matter what critics or tabloids may say.


Friday, December 16, 2011

Oh my God. I love him.


Damn, I just graduated from college! Now, I'm taking time to build my bank account back up, and look for journalism jobs in the area.

Crossing fingers, y'all.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

All the celebs

HERE IS MY CURRENT CELEBRITY CRUSH LIST (probs incomplete)
Naya Rivera
Dianna Agron
Kiera Knightley (duh)
Hope Solo
Michelle Pfeiffer
Zac Efron (obviously)
Petr Cech


AND CURRENT CELEBRITY IDOL LIST
Miranda Lambert
Britney Spears
Ian McKellen
Ryan Seacrest (stop laughing, he's awesome)
Jon Stewart
Beyonce


AND CURRENT CELEBRITY TARGETS FOR MY LOATHING
Taylor Swift (still funny)
Glenn Beck
Ann Coulter

Thursday, December 8, 2011


The trailer for "The Lorax" has rekindled both my love for Zac Efron and my loathing of Taylor Swift.
Let the battle begin.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Last Transcript of the year...

Well, this is it! As Rachel mentioned in her column over to the left, it's the end of the road for this year's Transcript. We do hope you'll miss us.
For Rach and I, it's the culmination of two long years of putting magazines that no one reads into the middle of the papers, reading emails, sending emails, getting mad, being confused, and all sorts of other emotions. We were on the staff in 2010 and chose to remain on for 2011. Whether it is a good thing or a bad thing that we are leaving, we'll let you decide!
This Friday, as I take the paper around one final time, you may see me with a few tears in my eyes. It will be, after all, one of my last days as a student here. No one believes you when you say college goes by quickly. Even though I am finishing up in three and a half years, it seems like it flew by more than it should have. Looking back, I can't quite remember all the classes I took or my favorite late-night conversations with friends. There are a few things I wish I had done in my leadership roles here. But I did my best, most of the time, even if I skipped a few classes or looked in the book on a few math problems.
In talking with our Greek adviser, Dana Behum, last week she told me how she walked around campus crying when she was getting ready to graduate from BGSU. She also said it's normal for seniors to play the "coulda woulda shoulda" game with their college lives. So I guess I'm right on track, huh?
I don't know if I have any words of wisdom right now or if my loyal readers are even expecting any from me! I don't have any big plans, only big dreams. I'll be putting in applications after exams are over and hoping I strike gold, because all our cats are getting expensive.And I sure hope I have some good leads by Christmas, because I know I'm going to get asked the "what are you doing with your life" question a zillion times as I stuff my newly-graduated face with Aunt Claire's delicious pumpkin roll at family Christmas celebrations.
So, y'all, this is a written goodbye for now. I will still be here in January for formal recruitment, so I will pop around and disrupt your classes. I'll still be keeping up with folks on Facebook, reading news on the website, creeping on Tumblrs and YouTube accounts, and otherwise being a "dedicated alumna." Check me out at wordvomitbyrj.blogspot.com for more of the written word. And hang in there. We all have times when we don't think we can do it, but I'm confident we are all able to pull through in the end. Good luck with exams, and we will see you in these pages soon! Thanks for everything.
Yesterday, someone came to the drive-thru and ordered French toast. We have it in three pieces and five pieces, so I asked the man what he meant.
This is what I got.
"The five. The muthafuckin' French toast!"

Sometimes life is too much.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Check out my kitty! He speaks! :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGwCFW8_ulM

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Have it your way, asshole!

It's probably not a secret that I work at Burger King. I like to complain about it on Facebook and Twitter and Tumblr and real life and everything, and I also am sure that my ass has gotten the opposite of "more toned" since I began working at the land of chicken tenders, fries and ice cream.
I think some of us who are lucky enough to have a liberal arts education tend to look down on fast food people. Maybe I was the only one, but I think we are quick to judge. When we are being trained to be teachers and economists and we have snazzy internships, what do we think about the folks behind the counter who serve us fried things? Most likely, that they're not as educated as we are. That they are supporting their kids, and they probably had their kids really young. That they kind of don't give a damn about us. And maybe, depending on their skin tone, that they are here illegally.
Basically, that we are on a higher tier than they are.
Yeah, I have thought those things in my young life about people I've seen out and about. I'm not proud of it and I know there are others here and elsewhere in the world who have.
When I began working at BK (I also call it The Burger or Beta Kappa Sorority when I feel like it), I was kind of apprehensive about my coworkers. It is hard to explain why. First of all, my fiancee got me the job. So that's awkward. But from what she had told me about work, it sounded like it was a crew of young parents, immigrants, some students, and the random middle-aged folks. I wasn't sure how I would fit in to the group.
Well, my assumptions were correct. Everyone in that store can be fit into one of those four categories. There are people there from many different walks of life, and my own personal walk is quite different from everyone else's. And the experience has been something that has made me yell, laugh, be afraid, be confused, be pissed off and everything in between...you don't know how infuriating the human race can be until you have put on a visor and a drive-thru headset.
But let me tell you something about working in fast food that I have realized. When you have customers on the phone and in line at the counter and backed up in the drive-thru, no one cares that you go to an expensive school. When a timer is beeping at you to go faster and you just spilled 40 ounces of fruit punch into the ice bins, it doesn't matter how many friends you have on Facebook or how drunk you got last night. When some stupid kid pukes in the Playland and you have to mop it up, nothing matters LESS than the fact that you have a fancy grant to a foreign country. All that matters when you are in those situations is that you are quick to react, good with the customers, and working like a team. My degree really doesn't help me at The Burger. At all. What helps me is my common sense (lacking) and my people skills (a redeeming quality if I have had enough caffeine).
I know getting a good job means everything to us, and our parents. I know that being in fast food is something many of us might be ashamed of. Why get out of school just to scoop fries and hand fatty snacks out a window? I think a lot of us have big plans. I know I do. But I also know there is nothing wrong with taking a job we may think is "below us" to make some money while we look for something more suited to our major or our life plan. It teaches you something. It's pretty humbling, as a matter of fact.
Some of us may be on a TiPiT or have a great internship. Those folks are people to be proud of. But those who are at some minimum-wage gig are just as worthy of our pride and our support. Dream as big as you want to, but don't be afraid to take a few extra baby steps to get to the top.
...do you want cheese on that?

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Speaking metaphorically...


This turkey sandwich is a metaphor for my life…I try to fit too many things into it, thinking it will be a delicious accomplishment. Then it all spills out and I burn my fingers and get mad. The cheese is not melted and I am sad.
Also, a cat has diarrhea.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Writin' a paper...sippin' on tea...

Monday, November 21, 2011

I am going to feed my Panera obsession today as I write a paper and job search.
Wish me and my wallet some fortune.

Monday, November 14, 2011

The 'original crime family'

Finishing my senior paper on the Borgia family the night "Assassin's Creed: Revelations" is being released. There is something like irony there. Too bad no Borgias are in this one or I may have to play through it "for research."

Saturday, November 12, 2011

I miss you, OWU Women's Soccer. Good luck tonight at NCAAs. <3

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Today I woke up with an engagement ring on my finger and I huge smile on my face.

GAY ENGAGED

Friday, November 4, 2011

WHAT I BELIEVE IN: Good effing grammar!


Every now and then, people have to stand up for what they believe in, right? 

I recently have gotten into several Facebook status fights with people I don’t even know, trying to defend my views on homosexuality. This, in and of itself, is a whole different column. But on my daily Internet ramblings and even the non-Internet ones I unfortunately come across some other form of ignorance. And not the “I hate Muslims because I listen only to Republican debates” kind of ignorance. The “I don’t like/don’t know proper grammar” kind of ignorance. And, of course, I have to fight it.

Now, I’m a journalism major. But I know there are others out there who give a damn about looking intelligent and who don’t spend hours a week in a newsroom. I’ve written about it before and I will write it again! If you are trying to hold an email conversation, or fight with someone on Facebook, or make a point…maybe I can key you in on a few little grammar treasures.

This country has a language problem. I’m not talking about the blatant misspelling of “Krusty Krab.” I don’t care that Toys “R” Us is both frugal with letters and trying to confuse me. I’ll even let Fergie Ferg and will.i.am spell it “‘t’ to the ‘a’ to the‘s-t-e-y.’”

No, we have a much greater problem, one so elementary that even my 11 and 14-year-old brothers could spell it out for you.

My fellow speakers of the English language, allow me to make one important distinction for you. “YOUR” AND “YOU’RE” ARE NOT THE SAME WORD.

I encounter the confusion of these two words on a daily basis. Facebook. Text messages. E-mails. Tweets. Status updates. Even advertisements and ABC 6 special reports. Apparently, everyone and their mother wants to make me cringe.

So for you grammar heathens, I’m going to review what we learned in first grade. We’re talking about “Schoolhouse Rock”-type lessons, folks. Stop eating Play-Doh and coloring outside the lines and listen. “Your” is possessive. It indicates something that belongs to the person you are addressing. It can be singular or plural. Example: Your grammar is atrocious.

“You’re” is a contraction of the words “you “and “are.” It’s a being verb. Example: You’re making me question how intelligent you are when you butcher the English language.

Please do not use these words interchangeably. You look like an idiot to anyone who knows better if you do, and your English teacher may or may not have a heart attack. Furthermore, I become ill and am forced to cease all physical activity for at least five minutes when people shorten either “you’re” or “your” to simply “ur.” Last I checked (and I am a religion major as well), Ur was an ancient Mesopotamian city that flourished between 2030 and 1980 BCE. So unless you are discussing the book of Genesis with me, please take that extra effort to move your thumbs just a little bit more and include all of the letters. Correctly. Just imagine how stupid we’d all look if we decided to be lazy and omit the letters “y,” “o,” and “e” in our everyday life. Nt nly wuld it lk quit prpstrus, but I wuld als g insan.

Another infuriating thing I encounter is a misuse of possessives. I guess this goes along with the whole your/you’re thing but bear with me. Apostrophes. They are great. They indicate possession or a contraction. But sometimes people like to add them into a plural form of something – for example, “The Rotuno-Johnson’s are coming to dinner.” Oh really? Now, if you were thinking you would know that you do not need an apostrophe unless the Rotuno-JohnsonS are bringing the Rotuno-Johnson’S cats to dinner. See what I did there? Plurals don’t need apostrophes. If I were to put apostrophe’s in all the plural’s of all the word’s people would have confused brain’s because they would think all of my word’s have something that belongs to them. That is just silly.

To avoid future silliness, my colleagues, please do what you can to use you’re brain’s. Ouch. Mine is hurting because of that sentence…

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Baby, baby, baby OHHHHH

Kind of enthused to see the results of Bieber's paternity test...

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20541938,00.html

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Article from the Transcript on break policy

 COPYRIGHT 2011, THE TRANSCRIPT

“What is wrong with OWU, all international students are going to be CHARGED for staying in THIS THANKSGIVING BREAK, and no rooms for you all for the Winter Break! I am very angry at this! If you feel the same way, we need to do something!”
This Facebook status, posted on Oct. 17, was the first “unofficial” announcement of the housing policy for international students over some academic year breaks and how it may affect students.
Since the posting, student across campus have expressed frustrations, formulated lists of questions and waded through rumors surrounding the policy “change.”
Wendy Piper, director of residential life, said only the implementation of an official policy has changed, not the policy itself.
“The official policy is that all students will be charged for staying on campus as they register to stay over break,” she said. “This is our housing policy. The policy has not changed, it has just been a practice of ours to not charge international students for staying over Thanksgiving or spring break.”
Chaplain Jon Powers said though he has heard little information about the housing policy situation, he believes that there’s been a lot of miscommunication, and that students are feeling “blindsided” by the news. 
“I’m concerned about the students’ welfare,” Powers said. “It’s hard enough to be on campus over winter break.” 
Powers also said he is concerned about the students’ reaction, and how it will be dealt with by Residential Life.
 “I am in no way being critical,” he said. “I’m just concerned about the well-being of the students involved.”
Piper said the rumor that students are to be consolidated in the Thompson basement is not completely true.
“We are working on a proposal for consolidating students over break,” she said. “This is not something new; we have done this in the past, just not in recent years. We are not anticipating using the ground floor of Thompson.  We anticipate keeping open the Citizens of the World House, Phi Delta Theta and Bashford Hall.”
With three weeks until Thanksgiving break, there has yet to be a formal announcement about the policy implementation. 
Junior Guanyi Yang, who is from China, is a resident assistant (RA) in Smith Hall. He said he was told he had to pay to stay in a meeting with his supervisor.
“The only time it was ‘formally’ announced to us was at a meeting of international students planning their Thanksgiving trip to New York, and that we’ll be charged for the days that we will be on campus,” he said. 
Around 30 students, generally upperclassmen, are eligible to go on this annual trip.
Piper said staff members have been prepared to answer students’ questions about the policy.
“All the new international students were informed by the International and Off Campus office prior to their matriculation,” she said. “We have been in touch with some of the RAs that are acting as a voice for international students and taking that feed back.  We’re hoping to put together something for the international students that this will affect.”
Piper said the change has been in the works for “a number of years.” 
“The question of equity was coming up frequently, that there were students who had the privilege of staying on campus without being charged and others who did not,” she said. “The implementation of this [policy change] is that students will be charged equally for services rendered over the break.”
Yang said international students usually stay on-campus because there is nowhere else to go.
 “It’s the school that requires to us to be on campus in the first place,” Yang said.  “For myself, I am going on the New York trip for Thanksgiving, and for the rest of break just come back.  As far as I know, most of my friends don’t know where to go, and they don’t want to pay the rate. The reason they stay here is because they don’t have money to travel.”
Piper said the cost for staying on campus during break is a fee of $20 a night.
”[It’s] certainly much cheaper than a nearby hotel room,” she said.  “Because of so many services that are unavailable on campus, we encourage students to go elsewhere. We don’t expect you to go home, but many students have family in the states or go home with other students to experience Thanksgiving with an American family.”
Junior Dasom Yang, a native of South Korea, said he was upset.
“I was really pissed off because, as an international student, it’s a sensitive thing,” he said. “If you’re 14 hours away by plane, you can’t go back any time you want. Thanksgiving break is just too short to pay $1,500 for a plane ticket.
“The school had to decide on some of the changes, that’s fine,” he said.  “But there should’ve been students involved in it, voicing their concerns, and the school should’ve listened to our situations first, and then announce it formally so we’re aware of the decisions that the school is making.”
Piper said the issue has always been about fairness.
“It has never been stated explicitly in the housing agreement that international students would not be charged for staying,” she said. “It didn’t quite seem appropriate that they received a privilege that other students, who may also have a legitimate reason for staying on campus, were not receiving.”





Maybe I'm sleep deluded and stressed about this paper but I am almost crying at how happy I am right now. Miranda Lambert is one of those artists who has defined moments in my life, who has expressed anger, hurt and love I have had no other words for. I am so excited to listen to this album and so proud of all she has become, from a Nashville Star contestant who didn't quite make it, to an angry fireball of a twentysomething, and now to a proudly married, award-winning legend in the making who still knows how to pack a punch. 


Thanks Ran. :)

Monday, October 31, 2011

ZOMBIES ATE MY NEIGHBORS


A central Ohio county is preparing for a zombie outbreak on Halloween, hoping to train responders for more likely emergencies through an exercise inspired by a tongue-in-cheek blog posting from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that urged people to be prepared for a "zombie apocalypse."
More than 225 volunteers in Delaware County north of Columbus signed up to dress as zombies Monday in a drill for officials who would deal with real-life situations involving hazardous materials and disaster response. Emergency responders will test their capabilities as they use standard decontamination procedures to "treat" the zombies and make them "human" again during the exercise at Ohio Wesleyan University.

...I am not having any of this. 

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Buying in

Tuesday night, the fraternity and sorority community gathered for a Trilogy event -- thus named because we have three a year -- with some trepidation. A speaker named David Stollman was going to be addressing our Greek community with a lecture called "Buy in, or Get Out." Kind of a harsh lecture title, right? Not to mention, David asked for pictures of us drinking in our letters for his presentation. He didn't get any, probably because there aren't any, but it still set a few of us on edge. I know some of my sisters were worried that he was going to yell at everyone for being bad Greeks.
Along with some other Greek leaders, I had the opportunity to share dinner with David before his presentation at the Delta Tau Delta house (and it was delicious, thanks guys). I was asked to escort him from HamWil to DTD by our Greek advisor, Dana. Let's be honest, I will do anything that woman asks me to but inside I was pooping my pants because I thought in the walk over, this little dark-haired balding Sig Ep was going to grill me about Greek life problems here on campus. And I don't do well with confrontation when I'm all alone!!
David was not really scary. He was actually quite nice! He was interested in our campus, its differences from other campuses and how the Greek system operates. We had a good dinner with representatives from the other sororities and fraternities, and we talked about things that are important to our chapters and to the Ohio Wesleyan Greek community as a whole. They were tough questions but I think all of us were thinking about any problems we have in our chapters or overall and how to solve them.
The presentation in Benes was well-attended, probably because we all were required to go....anyhow. There were a lot of people there to hear David's speech. He encouraged us to Tweet and text and update our statuses if we liked or disagreed with anything he said. He discussed negative stereotypes of fraternity and sorority life...and, yeah, showed us some pictures of puking fraternity men and of topless sorority women posing for a picture. But he also showed pictures of Greeks doing good things -- raising money for sick brothers and sisters, building a house for Habitat and doing a Dance Marathon to raise millions. Pictures of our community members were mixed in there too and I felt proud to be an Ohio Wesleyan Greek.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Sometimes being a journalist is hard.

Sometimes we have to pry into peoples' private lives to learn things that would benefit the greater community. It's a hard job to do but if we don't learn how to do it properly, who will?

Thursday, October 20, 2011

So I'm drinking, breathing, writing, singing
Everyday I'm on the clock
My mind races with all my longings
But cant keep up with what I got

Friday, October 14, 2011

Wrote a cover letter and polished up a resume for a job today! I feel so grown-up. It's scary but it's awesome.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

National Coming Out Cat



He's the greatest ally! He loves his two moms for who they are.

Thoughts from someone six and a half years out


A huge thank you to all the allies, friends, fellow LGBTIQ people and family members who have helped me through my own journey as a lesbian. I can't say enough to thank you, truly.
To everyone -- high school freshmen, college fraternity and sorority members, CEOs, politicians -- who want to come out today but can't for fear of rejection, know there are always places for you and there will always be people to accept you. Sometimes you have to look hard, but sometimes you need to look no further than who is already in your life.
If today is a hard day for you and you feel like you have nowhere to go...even if there is no one else, I am here for you and I love you.
Thank you to everyone in this movement for their courage and their honesty.

Friday, September 30, 2011

Remembering

Today at 4pm there will be a memorial service for 2011 graduate Aaron Riley, who died suddenly this summer while on a field trip with his graduate class...

I didn't know him extraordinarily well but we talked in the student center or when I was at Chi Phi, his fraternity house.

And it's also his birthday. Miss you buddy.

Monday, September 26, 2011

NEW HALLOWEEN COSTUME IDEA


Another dirty mouth cleaned up with Orbit!!!

Hangin' out the passenger side of his PS ride, tryin' to give me a ticket

Sometimes I get very frustrated when I try to park on campus.

Okay, I live a few blocks away. I don't often get up on time, so I can't walk to class. My only option is to drive over and find somewhere to park (usually in Selby). Same with when I do my laundry. It's hard, when you accumulate several hampers full of dirty clothes, to park on Spring Street in the rain and drag laundry to Smith. It's almost worse in the rain, or freezing cold, to park by the door, drop laundry off, go park and then come back. Sigh. It's no fun not having a permit sometimes.

Why don't I have a permit? Good question. I guess because when I have to pay around $400 a month for rent, utilities, food, gas and other items, a $100 permit seems like a stupid idea (especially since I'm graduating in December). I go to class every day and have meetings pretty often, but that's about it for my academic-side ventures. I certainly don't park in Selby or HamWill for hours at a time...and if I ever dare to park in Smith, Hayes or Welch you bet it will be for like half an hour.

Since moving off-campus, I have gotten my fair share of parking tickets. My car stayed through lunch at Selby? Ticket. Parked in Smith lot in a blizzard because I was late to PRIDE? Ticket. Parked in Edwards to interview a coach for an article? Ticket. Set my Toyota by the fraternities last year (on a Saturday!!) for a philanthropy event? Ticket again!

You bet your lug nuts that I contested all of these suckers. Not only do I have a chance to get out of the ticket, but I have more time to save twenty bucks! But not once have I won my contest. I'm on to you, Mike Esler.

I hear a lot of complaints about the parking situation on campus, and especially about tickets. I know someone who parked right in front of Hayes for two minutes while she ran upstairs to get tampons and got a $45 ticket. Yikes. People park there all the time...sorry about your luck, lady. The construction by Stuy has affected some Peaceful and Justicey peoples' ability to park by their house. Hayes and Smith lots are always full of folks--and those Smith spaces are too small even for my Corolla. Even if I shelled out a Benjamin for that parking pass, would I even get a good spot?

Parking can be rough here on campus but those of us without parking passes are lucky we have all the side streets to park on--Rowland, Washington, Winter, Oak Hill, Spring...and Catherine Street when it gets back to normal. And there aren't even any meters, just Delaware residents who may get mad at you when you park too close to their driveway. Bigger campuses don't have that luxury. I have visited OSU for events--and you either pay to park in a garage, feed the meter all your quarters, or risk getting a ticket. OU is the same way. All the side streets have meters, and if you park in a lot when you aren't supposed to, you get slammed. Or, let's see...you get your damn car towed on Halloween weekend!! Not that I have ever had that experience...or anything...

True, parking tickets are a pain. And it's hard to be happy about your parking pass when there is nowhere to put your vehicle. But there are close streets to park, and no worrying about meters or major time limits. Yeah, we may have to walk a little further or get up a little earlier...but it beats having to spend Taco Bell and beer money on a ticket.

It's a vicious cycle, too, I suppose. I get mad at Delaware parents who park in front of or actually in my driveway every day when picking up their kids from Woodward Elementary. But then I think. There probably aren't parking spots over there for them to stop and get their kids. Some of them are mean when I ask them to move but it usually isn't a problem...usually.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Great Greek weekend!

Today was Delta Zeta's annual Jell-O Tug of War and my sisters and I had a fantastic time. :) We raised a lot of money for the Delaware Speech and Hearing Center and spent happy hours sliding through gelatin after our fellow Greeks finished their tug-of-war competition.

There were quite a few fraternity men and sorority women there (and some unaffiliated folks, of course)! Everyone was having a great time and was very supportive of the cause and the tug. It made me think, as I often do, of how awesome the Greek community is at Ohio Wesleyan. I have gained so much from Delta Zeta and from my leadership roles here, but also have gained so many friendships and connections from the overall group o' Greeks. The other men and women in the community have been a great support network for the last two and a half years of my life--valuing service, scholarship, friendship and community along with my sisters and I.

I know that the Greek community has problems. I know we have a bad image--we haze, we stereotype, we judge, we drink, we discriminate, we dirty rush, we are too selective. Some of us really don't live up to our ritual, to the standards our founders set up. And that's a shame. I feel that I am fortunate to be in a chapter full of strong women who believe in our creed and our aims: "...to unite its members in the bonds of sincere and lasting friendship, to stimulate one another in the pursuit of knowledge, to promote the moral and social culture of its members, and to develop plans for guidance and unity in action; objects worthy of the highest aim and purpose of associated effort."

Sometimes our organizations get lost in peer pressure and image, or even our own stereotypes. It's true. I know hazing and misuse of alcohol are rampant at some bigger schools and that turns a lot of people away. I'm sure it happens here too, just not on a huge scale. We hold each other accountable and we have our founders and ritual to keep us on task. We try so hard to keep the fraternity and sorority experience enriching for everyone in the system.

I think all of us at OWU in the Greek system, need to count ourselves so lucky that we have good people, dedicated alums, and a supportive faculty on our side. I love our Greek community and I would not change my memories in DZ for anything. Thanks to everyone for being such a great group of people and making today such a big success!

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Get me out of here!

I do love going to a liberal arts school, but sometimes it just makes me crazy.

Like science classes, for example. I'm a journo. I don't deal well with science. I'd rather not ponder how everything works and just let it work. But noooo, that's too simple isn't it? I have to take classes on it.

I'm in Organisms and their Environment this semester and it is awful. I have no idea what's going on!! And my current grade is a disappointing D. Sigh.

Plus, I don't belong in the science center. Plain and simple. It's scary, it's confusing, it's cold and I always get lost. I feel like I walk around and people can tell that I don't belong. Like a pariah.

You can always tell when people don't belong in a certain building or a certain class. At this school, by the time you are a senior, you know how certain majors look, think, and act. And where they hang out. The fellas in my Islam class who look like Vineyard Vines advertisements? Not religion majors. And me, the pseudo-prep with newsprint on her hands every Thursday morning? Not a science major.

Being in science classes throws me out of my comfort zone. I like my comfort zone. It's comfortable and it's nice. I am good at writing and the study of religion--obviously, because I haven't failed out of the programs yet. But put me in Schimmel-Conrades Science Center and I balk. There are two buildings (and one is mostly MATH)! Too many floors! It's dark! All the bathrooms look the same! I am afraid to go up or down stairs because I don't know where they lead. I don't want to open doors because I am afraid of what is behind them--mutated lab mice? Noxious gases? Freshmen having a quickie?

Four times a week I enter into this frightening place to learn about terrifying, difficult and sciencey things. After that, my newspaper deadlines don't look that bad.

Deadlines!

Oy, deadlines make me crazy.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Friday, July 15, 2011

Saturday, July 9, 2011

South Sudan

Woke up today and was thrilled to hear of South Sudan's independence.

This is good news overall, I think. I've followed news from Darfur and the Sudan region for years, so it means a bit to me. :)

But this also concerns me. First of all, I think this will isolate Darfur even further. I'm worried that the South Sudanese will be too busy beginning their own government to help the rebel cause in Darfur. I'm also worried that the North may try to up the violence in Darfur, or even begin fighting the South.

My other worry is that the new government may fail -- whether because of inexperience or violence, I do not know. But I don't think the United States needs to get involved at all, beyond sending them support. If we have a relationship with them, it should be fair and it should be symbiotic. We give them money in exchange for oil, or something. They have a lot of oil. I don't think we should just give them money or anything because that could bite us in the ass later.

Also. I don't know much about Palestine and its fight for independence. But I think the US's support of South Sudan makes us look very bad to whoever supports a Palestinian state. That may also create tension.

So.

Any thoughts, my colleagues?

Friday, July 8, 2011

I CAN'T WAIT

Pistol Annies album out 8.23.11 and Miranda Lambert out 11.1.11. The rest of this year is going to be almost too much to handle.

I better make some more money!!!!

(and I get to see Britney Spears on August 20. <3)

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Of trials and parenting

I don't know enough about the Casey Anthony trial to pass judgment.

But I do know this whole thing has galvanized me to be a better parent one day. To change the world for my kids and their friends. Seriously, you see a case like this and I don't know how you're not called to do something. To hug your own kids or maybe smile at a stranger's kid on the street...and definitely, to never do anything even close to this to your own children.

It's maddening to me, the horrible things we do with our freedom of choice and our power of will. Sometimes the world makes me wonder what the hell God is doing up there.

But I know that if it weren't for tragedy, there wouldn't be as much good in the world. It doesn't explain this case, but it helps me remember my place in this world. I see things like this and I react to them. An equal and opposite reaction. And I'm sure so many other people out there are called to make this world better, too.

Thanks to all the parents out there who are loving and gentle and kind.

Especially mine.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Wipe that drool off your chin



SOCCER IS THE WORLD'S FAVORITE SPORT

Tea partyers all up in my blog

I like coffee better.

Thoughts on immigration

There's a new immigration law in Georgia, one that thousands are protesting.

I looked it over, and it doesn't seem so harsh. Well, at least not compared to similar laws in Arizona or Utah. But it does get me thinking about my stance on immigration.

All the illegal immigrants I have met in my life are much kinder souls than any of the politicians I have met. They are humble. They don't assume to be better than anyone. They know many people wouldn't want them to be here, but they're working two or three jobs that most Americans won't work so they can send money home to their families.

How many Americans really want to "stoop so low" to take the jobs these people take gladly? Minimum wage, emptying trash at a mall or opening a McDonald's at 4:30 in the morning? If it weren't for illegal immigrants­, this country would be fucked.

Oh, and your white great-gran­dparents? They were illegals too. What gives you the privilege to deny these people a better life like all of our ancestors wanted?

Friday, July 1, 2011

She work hard for the money

My life must not be interesting enough to blog about or something! I keep reading my friends' blogs from abroad and feel a longing for something more exotic.

But then again, what's more exotic than Delaware OH?

This summer has been...well, full. But not of too much out of the ordinary, I s'pose. Interning at the Undergraduate Interfraternity Institute at IU was interesting, enlightening and wonderful. It gave me a good sense of the state of Greek affairs today and made me seriously rethink this whole future thing. I mean, after another week with other bright young people who want to change our system, I felt compelled to continue my work with Greek life. I talked to some of the Greek advisers there and really was inspired by what they do.

So there's that. But right now, I can't think too much about grad school because I need to be thinking about money. Ain't that the story of everyone's life? Between feeding cats, the car, and myself, not to mention paying all the bills and buying groceries, life gets kind of pricey.

I'm working around 30-40 hours a week at Burger King, the same one Leah is at, to bring in a steady cash flow. Sometimes it gets boring, and the customers can be difficult, but I generally like it there. I've been there a month, so I know how to do everything but make sandwiches. I think I'm a little too ditzy for the job sometimes because I make stupid mistakes (like spilling shake mix and pushing the wrong buttons and forgetting to give people change) but I'm learning.

Most of the kitchen guys are from Mexico, and they speak relatively good English. They're fascinated by my bumbling Spanglish and love to talk to me. They're all very nice, even if they tease me about why I like girls and are constantly asking me if there are "yummy yummy mamacitas" at the drive-thru window. I haven't taken Spanish in four years, so I can't remember every word or tense conjugation. But I can hold a convo with them, and we like joking around during the day.

I've been writing baseball Tweets and press releases for the Great Lakes Summer Collegiate League and working for the circus as well. Not too many circus gigs around here, though, so my time there has been limited.

Oh yeah, and there have been a lot of cats in and around our house. Still have six indoors, and now a mama and five kittens outdoors. The outside kitties are feral and very wary of us. I'm scared for them. What will we do with them if we can't catch them??

All in all, it's been a good summer. But I miss my old friends and my family and playing soccer and being richer than I am now. Leah and I are some of the only souls here in town. When's August again??

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

MMMMMM Pistol Annies



I love this song. Pistol Annies don't even have a record release date yet and I'm hungrily waiting for more.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

I'm going Hollywood tomorrow!!


With this sexy man on the set of his new movie... Hello Josh Radnor, meet one of your extras. <3

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Oh hey Beyonce



Damn, how does she do it?

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

FLAT ON THE FLOOR

So apparently Lauren Alaina sang my favorite song tonight on American Idol. Yes, I know, I'm a diehard Miranda Lambert fan...but Carrie Underwood's "Flat on the Floor" is definitely my favorite song (or top three...they change). And though I admit I am happy to see such a great song get credit, I'm a little depressed.

I have dreamed of being the first to sing that song on Idol for a long time. And unless someone else has done it on the big stage, Lauren just stole that from me. Just like what's her face, who used to date Brad Paisley, stole my dream of being the first major lesbian country singer. And I know I'll probably never be on Idol, even if I try out, because I'm not good enough to compete with some of those people. And I'll probably never be a famous singer. But damn. I would love to have done that song. Lying down, of course. How the hell do you sing a song called "Flat on the Floor" standing up?!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Anniversary time?




DEAR FACEBOOK.

Thanks for this reminder. I will be sure to send Leah a secret message about our anniversary.

Love, me

Monday, April 18, 2011

I forgot how much I LOVE Celine Dion. MMM

Hipster Wesker


My new favorite meme.

Monday, February 21, 2011

Kitten


I have the cutest cat in the world.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Thoughts on an icy day

I sit writing this on a comfortable futon in my off-campus apartment. It’s Tuesday morning, the first day of February. The world outside is encased in ice. Just a few hours ago, I broke my ice scraper into several pieces trying to clear off my car so my girlfriend could go to work.

I look down Washington Street toward Beeghly Library. The buzz around Facebook and Twitter is that there’s a power outage and that the sidewalks aren’t salted.  As of 9:55 a.m. no one has broken a leg. Yet. But I might be the first as I make my way down the street. I do not have people to put down salt for me. I’m two blocks from the library but for some reason I am perfectly happy here.

Part of me wishes I still lived on campus. I would probably be standing at the top of the hill on front of Smith (if I could even make it up there) with some sort of apocalyptic sign. I would be dressed in black and I would have a trash can next to me, flames coming up from it as I burned something. Like in RENT. I would probably be burning flyers from events that happened two weeks ago but were still hanging up.

But I’m still in my bathrobe and sitting at my house. I’m waiting for the emergency Connect-ED system to tell me what’s going on. Should I go to my meeting for the Transcript? Should I do the homework I haven’t done yet? How are people going to eat if the power is out? Have the B&G generators kicked in? Has anyone slipped yet? What the hell is going on?

I keep waiting for campus-wide emails to pop up on my phone and tell me what’s going on, too, but I know that won’t happen. If I understand the email system correctly, someone in administration has to approve all the campus-wides before they go out. And there’s no way they can do that. Because there’s no power.

Either the administration is still deciding what to tell us, or it is just complete chaos in University Hall. The only people I can really rely on are my fellow students. But they aren’t telling me anything new.

I hope today is a lesson for the rest of the year, in case we have something like this again. Which we might. In case the Tea Party hasn’t noticed, global warming is real. And that’s why we have such extreme weather. Plus, it’s Ohio. You never know what the sky is going to dump on you in Ohio.

I understand that we’re a residential campus and that people have the capability to walk (that is, if the sidewalks are salted). What about our professors and commuter students, who have to drive? What about off-campus students like me who have to slip and slide to campus? If you’re going to ask us all to come, you should at least let us all know what’s going on and not just leave it to Facebook and word of mouth.

And for God’s sake, this was all in the forecast. Couldn’t you have asked that salt was put down last night so that B&G didn’t have to risk killing themselves today? I don’t want them getting hurt either, of course. I don’t want anyone getting hurt in this weather. That’s why I’m a strong proponent of snow and ice days.

By the time everyone reads this, it’ll be old news. And I know that people bitch and moan about snow every year. But it still deserves to be said, in my opinion. No matter how “residential” your campus is, icy sidewalks aren’t safe. Freezing rain doesn’t give a shit how many feet Hayes is from the academic side. It’s still going to come down. Sleet is unbiased: even if everyone lived in dorms it would still be on the sidewalks, waiting to kill us all.

I’m ready for some summer up in here.

Monday, January 31, 2011

It's clusterfuck Monday!

Seriously, when did being a college student get so hard?! I thought journalism was EASY!

Friday, January 28, 2011

Wagon train's a-movin'

Should be at Nyoh's learning to line dance with my sisters right now...but I have a nasty cold so I'm inside hanging out with another girl who didn't go and "doing homework."

Sigh.

Three of my sisters texted me when Miranda Lambert came on, though. Made me smile.

I hate being sick. There must be something going around.

Regardless, I am enjoying my time spent in the lounge of Thomson Hall reading Cosmopolitan online. Don't judge me.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Blurblurblur

These past few weeks have been a whirlwind. Getting back to school, starting new classes, formal recruitment, our chinchilla needing emergency care, my girlfriend's car breaking...and new years begun at The Transcript, Delta Zeta and PRIDE.

I have wonderful teams of people behind me everywhere I go and in everything I do. If not for them, I'd be lost.

I was officially transitioned into being the president of DZ tonight, after months of preparation. It's stunning to me how much faith my sisters have that I can leave them. And I think I keep learning more about myself as I take into consideration I have 61 other women to take care of, guide, and love every day. It's amazing. And it's also a little scary!

PRIDE is off like a rocket. The club has really come into its own. We got great new blood with our freshman class, and the whole group is very passionate about what we are doing. As with anything, I wish we could do more. And I wish we could make more of an impact on the local community. I really hope to see Ohio legalize gay marriage. Soon. Well, maybe soon is too hopeful. Someday? Can I just settle for someday?

Sigh.

The newspaper is something I love to do. I am glad to be on staff as an editor. Every day I am learning how to be a better journalist. Two of my sisters in DZ are on the leadership staff with me so that makes me very happy. Funny thing, they both come to PRIDE as well. Do I just attract journos who care about LGBTIQ rights?

Nah. It's more like I just attract wonderful people.

I'm so glad I have such a great group of friends and fellow leaders.

Leah tops them all though. :) We have been through a lot this week. She is so amazing and strong. I am so lucky she is my partner.



Get better, Pacco! We miss you!

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Ochoclinton???

...WELL.

It sure is the life in Miami. Chad Ochocinco just Tweeted a pic of him and Bill Clinton. Apparently old Willy Jeff was at Ocho's birthday party!!



Keep in mind this is shortly after Ocho spent time with Cristiano Ronaldo and soccer team Real Madrid. He's a popular guy!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

SWIFT REDEMPTION...brought to you by Gyllenhaal

It's just not Taylor Swift's year.

And does that upset me? Nah. Not a bit.

First, she gets shut out of Grammy nominations--so she'll be forced to sit idly by and watch as other stars get the recognition she "deserves" at the ceremony this winter.

Second, Jake Gyllenhaal apparently thought she was too young/too stuck-up/too dumb to date, and dumped her after a month of dating.

She is surely licking her wounds and writing a song of the angry breakup kind for poor Jake.

Luckily, I revamped part of Love Story for her...*ahem*

You were nine years older
When I first saw you
I closed my eyes as I sipped my latte,
You were there,
In LA in the summer air

See the lights, see the paparazzi
They're not gonna catch us doin' the naughty
Oh no no...
But little did I know...

That you are Gyllenhaal, and you can do much better
And your buddies said "stay away from Taylor Swift!"
And now I'm crying in my latte, writing a song for you...
And I'll say

I'm over you Jakey, sorry I'm so self-obsessed
I'll find another star to wear a white dress
For on a wedding day far in the future
Taylor Swift is back, bitch
And no one breaks up with her...

PS Congrats on the Peoples' Choice Awards...your fans still love you, but professionals and people who REALLY know you seem to be less than pleased.